Kaya life coaching

I would like to give you feedback that is aimed at giving you a positive insight into your own well-being and behavior. The flow or not of your sexual energy. In order to give this positive feedback I try to get this information from breathing exercises, your own boundary exercises, Tantra rituals and my massages. The body gives me all sorts of signals that together can form an image about your well-being.

We often seek the cause of stress, fear, dissatisfaction or unwanted feelings outside ourselves. While not always the event or situation causes the emotion, it is our thoughts that determine how we feel. How you think determines how you feel and how your behavior is.

Some examples where I have a lot of experience are men who can not enjoy sex because of all kinds of performance issues. The relationship is often under pressure or there are expectations. Often there are tensions around your pelvis and your body that block the flow of your sexual energy. Or come out of the closet at a later age, now you are free and you can not fully enjoy it. I also have a lot of experience with:

  • Control freaks, can not relax.
  • Always want to be perfectionistic.
  • Do not indicate your own limits.
  • Do not feel that I touch you, to much in your head.
  • Step out of your comfort zone.
  • Always wants to be liked, pleases the other person.
  • Uncertainty and / or little self-confidence.
  • Justice, assert your ego.
  • Disaster thinking. Negative thought spiral.

Or maybe you want to talk about a different topic or just have your story lost, I always have a listening ear. From experience I know that just listening to someone can do a lot, especially in this modern age of fast impersonal media. Or do you find it exciting and want to first get to know and explain without a massage. Look for options at rates.